1:1 Private Clinical EFT Tapping

A sacred healing container for the self aware woman ready to stop people pleasing and finally step into a peaceful, liberated, and deeply authentic life.

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There is so much more waiting for you on the other side of people pleasing and always playing the good girl…

A life where enforcing a boundary doesn't drain you or send you into a three-day anxious spiral. Where you graciously exit the party at the exact time you want, because you are no longer at the mercy of everyone else’s expectations.

A life where your inner circle is chosen with deep intention. You no longer tolerate the people who consume all the oxygen in the room and leave no space for you. You spend your precious energy with people who lift you up and leave you feeling seen, heard, and nourished – and you gently walk away from anything less.

A life where you tell the truth, even when it feels uncomfortable. Living with radical integrity becomes more important than managing everyone else’s emotions. You realize that honesty is the highest form of love for everyone involved, and you begin to move through the world from that quiet unshakable center.

A life where you no longer obsess over how other people feel about your choices.  You know yourself, you trust yourself, you make the best choices for you and you’re still at peace even if other people don’t understand.

When I stopped trying to be the "good girl," my entire world opened up. Life became vivid, playful, and delightful. My inner dialogue shifted from harsh berating to gentle, best-friend compassion. And when I cleared my own freeze response, I finally unlocked the depth of relationship, intimacy, and joy I had always dreamed of.

You don't need another mindset trick or a script to memorize. You need your nervous system to know that it is safe – safe to be seen, safe to speak, and safe to let yourself dance in whatever way the music moves through your body.

If your heart is whispering that you are ready for this kind of freedom, I would be honored to walk alongside you.

Our emotions are more powerful than logic

You are a smart, deeply self-aware woman. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and done the inner work. Logically, you know you are allowed to set boundaries, speak your truth, and prioritize your own energy.

So why does it still feel so terrifying to actually do it?

Because the second you try to say "no," speak up, or stop fixing someone else’s discomfort, your nervous system takes over before your mind can catch up:

  • Your chest tightens, your stomach knots up, or a sudden wave of panic washes over you.
  • Your throat feels locked – the physical imprint of a freeze response keeping your voice trapped inside.
  • You instantly default to your old survival script that kept you safe for decades: apologize, over-explain, accommodate, and keep the peace at all costs.

Your body learned a long time ago that being the "easy" one was the safest way to be loved and accepted. Today, that outdated survival response is quietly keeping you stuck in three distinct patterns:

  • People Pleasing: Saying "yes" when your whole body is screaming "no," carrying crippling guilt the moment you set a boundary, and exhausting yourself fixing everyone else's problems while quietly abandoning your own needs.
  • Lack of Self-Expression: Swallowing your opinions to keep the peace, freezing up in difficult conversations, and hiding your true self in your life, career, or business.
  • Low Self-Worth: Living a carefully constructed "safe" life that leaves you with a quiet, existential "Is this really it?" because you are completely disconnected from your own intuition and desires.

The Hard Truth: If you could think your way out of these patterns, you would have done it years ago.  You cannot logic your way out of a nervous system response.

Why Traditional Methods Have Left You Feeling Stuck

If you feel like you’ve done "all the work" but still hit the same invisible wall, it’s not because you aren't trying hard enough. It's because most traditional approaches only address half the equation:

  • Traditional Talk Therapy gives you incredible insight and vocabulary to explain why you are the way you are – but it keeps you operating strictly from the neck up. Analyzing your childhood doesn't stop your heart from racing in real-time.
  • Mindset & Affirmations try to overwrite your deep-seated protection mechanisms with positive thinking. But telling yourself "I am safe to set boundaries" while your nervous system is screaming "If I say no, they will abandon me" creates internal friction, not peace.
  • Reading & Podcasts feed your intellect while your body continues to run its old survival script in the background.

To actually change how you show up, you have to stop trying to out-think your patterns and start working directly with your emotions.

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"I recently had the privilege of working with Jess, and her impact on my life has been nothing short of transformative. 

Before starting these sessions, I found myself struggling with procrastination, a lingering sense of unworthiness, and a fear of success that hindered my personal and professional growth, ultimately putting me in a business standstill. 

The safe and nurturing space that Jess created helped me uncover the underlying reasons behind these challenges and deep-rooted fears.  I now embrace my emotions without self-judgment and have learned to treat myself with loving kindness while empowering myself to take action toward the life of my dreams.

As a result of our sessions, I've experienced a renewed sense of self-discovery and excitement to propel my business to the next level. 

If you are on the fence about investing in this program, I wholeheartedly recommend Jess to anyone seeking profound personal or professional growth.  The results are proven and worth it!"

- Kadi Jayne

Updating Your Body's Safety Settings

People pleasing isn't just a bad habit or a character flaw – it is a physical safety response rooted in stored fear, guilt, and shame. We aren't here to give you another checklist of things to try; we are here to safely process and release the emotions that are driving this behavior.

Clinical EFT Tapping (Emotional Freedom Techniques) is a scientifically proven somatic tool that combines modern psychology with gentle acupressure. In our sessions, we gently tap on specific points on your body while safely acknowledging and befriending the exact emotions that originally taught you to shrink.

What happens inside your body:

  • Silences the Alarm: Physical tapping sends an immediate calming signal directly to your brain's fear center (the amygdala) letting it know that the danger has passed.
  • Dissolves the Emotional Spike: It lowers the emotional intensity of fear, shame, or judgment from a roaring panic down to a neutral baseline.
  • Rewires Somatic Safety: We gently teach your body that it is safe to speak your truth, safe to set a boundary, and safe to occupy space in your own life.

When your body finally feels emotionally safe, you no longer have to force boundaries through exhausting willpower. You naturally stop reacting from anxiety and start moving through your life, career, and relationships with calm, unshakable authority.

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What Life Feels Like When Your Body Finally Feels Safe

Healing at the somatic level doesn't just change your mindset – it changes the tangible, everyday reality of how you live. Women who have stepped into this private container have walked away with the ability to:

  • Hold Unshakable Boundaries: Confidently say "no" to family expectations, peer pressure, and over-commitments without spiraling into a three-day cloud of crippling guilt.
  • Embody True Self-Love: Look in the mirror - without picking themself apart - and genuinely, authentically feel a deep sense of "I love myself".
  • Build an Inner Circle That Replenishes Them: Stop spending energy on people who consume all the oxygen in the room, lovingly step away from one-sided dynamics, and make space for relationships where they are actually seen, heard, and held.
  • Cultivate a Gentle Internal Dialogue: Replace the harsh inner critic that berates them for every minor mistake with best-friend compassion – offering themselves grace when things go sideways and trusting their internal compass above anyone else’s opinion.
  • Elevate Their Standards: Break old, exhausting relationship cycles as their sense of self-worth rises – naturally choosing and receiving healthier, more secure intimate connections because they no longer tolerate less.
  • Use Their Voice: Navigate difficult, uncomfortable conversations from a calm nervous system, fiercely advocating for their own needs without shrinking or apologizing.
  • Expand Their Capacity for Wealth: Clear the hidden visibility blocks keeping them small in their business or career, allowing them to show up fully, be seen, and comfortably receive large amounts of money.

"Before working with Jess, I struggled to recognize my own progress. No matter what I accomplished, I dismissed my small wins and focused only on what I wasn’t doing. Self judgment and anxiety kept me stuck, and I put so much pressure on myself to “do it like others” that I lost sight of what actually felt right for me.

Through EFT Tapping, I started reconnecting with myself. I’m now building my business more intentionally, in alignment with my energy and values. Jess helped me tap into my strengths and come back to myself.

One of the biggest shifts has been moving through visibility blocks - especially around showing up as myself in my marketing and outreach. I’m finally letting go of the fear of what others will think and embracing a more authentic version of me. I'm taking greater ownership of who I am and what I want in life and instead of making myself wrong for it, I'm starting to proudly own it, in both my life and businesses."

- Sammie Walker Herrera

Is This Container Right For You?

This is for you if:

  • You are self-aware and highly functional on the outside, but exhausted by internal anxiety, people pleasing, and always trying to be “good”
  • You recognize that reading more books or memorizing phrase scripts hasn't stopped your stomach from knotting up when you say "no”
  • You are genuinely willing to drop into your body, feel your feelings (especially the uncomfortable ones), and process the stored fear, guilt, and shame at the somatic level.
  • You want high-touch support and are committed to practicing your integration work between our sessions

This is NOT for you if:

  • You are looking for a magic fix that doesn't require active participation, emotional vulnerability, or real-life application.
  • You are determined to stay purely in your head - intellectualizing your patterns and analyzing your stress, but unwilling to slow down and actually feel your emotions.
  • You want to focus exclusively on getting other people to change their behavior, rather than taking ownership of your own boundaries, capacity, and emotional safety.
  • You are currently experiencing or have recently experienced a mental health crisis.

Inside the 1:1 Private Container

This container is designed entirely around deep, transformative work. We focus our time on powerful emotional repatterning during our calls, giving you the space between sessions to integrate those physical and emotional shifts into your daily reality.

What is included:

  • Rolling 4-Session Blocks: We work together in sets of four weekly, 75-minute sessions via Zoom. There are no massive, year-long commitments required. You simply renew your 4-session package over and over for as long as you need – some clients achieve what they want in a single month, while others choose to retain their exclusive spot and continue upleveling their life for years.
  • Personalized Integration Homework: Specific, actionable activities and journaling prompts assigned between our sessions to help anchor your new emotional baseline into your life.
  • The Complete Digital Library: Complimentary access to all of my digital workshops to support your ongoing growth while we work together.
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"Tapping has given me so much more confidence in the way that I post online and I don't second guess myself as much anymore.

We were able to work through my feeling cringy and embarrassed promoting my business and I have come out the other side with a lot more positivity towards showing up online and being visible.  I just post now and I have a lot more confidence and freedom which feels a million times better than running your business with fear.

My leads have increased exponentially because I have finally stepped into posting regularly and have found my authentic voice.  I was also able to 4x my program prices and generate the highest month of sales in my business history!"

- Kelsey Wat

Meet Your Guide

Inner Healing & Certified Clinical EFT Tapping Practitioner

Hi, I’m Jess!  I’m here to support women like you who are ready to break free from people pleasing, perfectionism, and the “good girl” conditioning that’s kept you small for far too long.

This work is deeply personal to me. I used to believe that my worth came from being the nicest, easiest and most accommodating person. But the truth is, playing the "good girl" was quietly keeping me from the life, experiences, and relationships I truly wanted.

It wasn’t until I stopped trying to just think my way out of it and started doing deep emotional healing work that everything shifted.  I've spent the last 8+ years transforming myself from a "good girl" into an empowered woman ✨

EFT Tapping was a game-changer on my journey, so I did a 12-month certification to master it. Since then, I’ve led over 500 hours of private tapping sessions helping women to find their voice, deeply love & respect themselves, and become the leaders of their own lives.

My work is about helping you feel radically safe to be yourself — to say the thing, set the boundary, wear the outfit, share your gifts, rest when you need to, and live life on your terms.

I'm so excited to connect with you 🤎

Ready to Claim Your Space?

Because I only work with 4 one-on-one clients at a time, space is limited and new clients are accepted by application only.

How the Application Process Works:

  1. Submit Your Application: Fill out the short form below (takes ~15 minutes) so I can understand your current baseline, goals, and emotional capacity.
  2. Personal Review: I personally review every application within 5 business days.
  3. Next Steps:
  • If it seems like a fit & a spot is open: You’ll receive an invitation to book a 1:1 call where we’ll get to know each other deeper, ensure we are a true mutual fit, and discuss moving forward.
  • If it seems like a fit & the container is full: You’ll be notified immediately and placed on our priority waitlist, giving you first access to book a call the moment a spot opens up.
  • If it's not the right fit: You’ll receive a warm email update letting you know, so you are never left hanging.
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"Going into this, I thought confidence was going to be my priority. But I realized how much confidence actually comes from having a strong basis in self-trust.

I used to repress and avoid difficult emotions, but tapping helped me release the anxiety and fear keeping me stuck. In fact, right after a session focused on fear, a mid-back pain I’d carried for weeks completely vanished!

I’ve experienced more acceleration and transformation in these three months than over the past two years of therapy. I left my corporate job, launched my business, landed my first paid client just two weeks later, lost 18 pounds, and completely shifted my daily energy. I feel like I am in a true era of liberation around becoming who I truly am."

- Alan Fernald

"I began working with Jess a few years ago after my mother's death while I was caring for my dad. Needless to say, it was a difficult time. On top of the grief and stress, I had decades of suppressing my emotions and letting warped beliefs and negative self-talk shape my life.

Jess helped me begin the healing journey. Using tapping, she helped me learn to let my emotions be present without judgment and build stronger coping mechanisms. After a lifetime of hating myself, Jess helped me release that and move towards liking and loving the person I am. I cannot overemphasize how much her support, skill, and guidance have changed my life for the better."

- Julie Ciccarelli

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"Before working with Jess, I felt completely blocked in my business.  Constantly spinning my wheels on things that didn’t really matter, caught up in perfectionism, and doubting every decision I made. I was trapped in an exhausting cycle of people-pleasing and overthinking, so afraid of messing up or being judged.

This program completely shifted how I show up for myself. One of the biggest breakthroughs for me was realizing I don’t need to be perfect to be worthy or to see results. My inner critic has quieted down and I’ve started treating myself with more compassion instead of beating myself up.

But the real game-changer was working through the shame and fear tied to old childhood wounds that were fueling my self-doubt and overthinking. EFT Tapping helped me to start releasing those issues and it created space for me to believe something new about myself. That inner healing changed everything.  I feel more confident, grounded, and connected to my own worth. It wasn’t just about thinking differently; it was about feeling differently.

This work taught me to trust myself on a deeper level. I’ve learned to take imperfect action and show up as my real self, even when it’s uncomfortable. I’m not stuck in fear or chasing validation anymore. Now I feel lighter, freer and more at ease in my own skin.

I can’t say enough good things about Jess! Her compassionate, supportive, and intuitive approach helped me realize that real transformation starts from within. The way she gently guides you to build confidence, self-trust, and self-love through her program has truly been the most empowering gift I could have given myself."

- Kira Michelle